…they are getting really cool privileges out of doing so. This is what George Will, columnist for the Washington Post, claims is going on in his recent spew of… um… opinion.
“…when they make victimhood a coveted status that confers privileges, victims proliferate.”
He helpfully puts quotation remarks around sexual assault to make it clear that, it’s all, you know… lies.
“Consider the supposed campus epidemic of rape, a.k.a. ‘sexual assault.’ … Now the Obama administration is riding to the rescue of “sexual assault” victims. It vows to excavate equities from the ambiguities of the hookup culture, this cocktail of hormones, alcohol and the faux sophistication of today’s prolonged adolescence of especially privileged young adults.
Let’s break this little quote down into some component parts, just for fun. (Warning… I use bits of colorful language. Because this is a blog based out of my work, I will be kind enough to insert an asterisk in key locations of the word.)
A. Rape, a.k.a “sexual assault.” So a rape is otherwise known as a sexual assault. Okay. Except actually, according to him, rape is otherwise known as sexual assault with a knowing, eyebrow-waggling, “we all know this is just bullsh*t” set of quotation marks around it. Sort of like talking about lynching, a.k.a. a hate crime. Except it’s in George Will-ese: Lynching: a.k.a. a “hate crime.” Because really, that’s overstating the matter, right?
(False reports of rape are rare, according to the FBI, occurring only 8% of the time.)
B. Ambiguities of the hookup culture: In other words, kids these days. All they do is scr*w, scr*w, scr*w all day long. And presumably all night. Those slutty women. Those randy, well-meaning fellas. There are no sexual assaults in colleges, just irresponsible kids. Except, of course, when guys are irresponsible, it’s just guys being guys and when women are, they are sluts and dressed too provocatively and drank the wrong thing and gave him blue balls and he Just. Couldn’t. Stop. Right? So it’s not rape. He was just defending himself from an epic case of sexual frustration caused by that crazy girl.
(We are all conscious of and able to control our own actions. Perpetrators have the ability to decide not to violate another person. They just choose to do it anyways, and use this as a rationale for their behavior.)
C. “Cocktail of hormones, alcohol…” Because young men can’t help themselves, and really the whole problem is just alcohol. Alcohol makes people do crazy things. Why, just the other day, I was drunk on my couch and afraid I might get up and stagger into the kitchen and stick a fork willfully into my own eye. That happens to all of us, that terrible fork/eyeball incident, right? Wait, it doesn’t? Because it would never occur to me in a million years while sober to deliberately stick a fork in my eye? Just like it would never in a million years sober occur to someone to stick their sexual apparatus into someone else who was unwilling? It was just the alcohol? Uh…hmmm. Something’s off here.
(Although alcohol consumption and sexual assault frequently co-occur, this phenomenon does not prove that alcohol use causes sexual assault. Thus, in some cases, the desire to commit a sexual assault may actually cause alcohol consumption (e.g., when a man drinks alcohol before committing a sexual assault in order to justify his behavior). Moreover, certain factors may lead to both alcohol consumption and sexual assault. For example, some fraternities encourage both heavy drinking and sexual exploitation of women…) – (Study done by the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism.)
D. “especially privileged young adults”: Spoiled kids will say anything for attention. Rapes don’t really happen. It’s just young women who want lots of attention. Tons of attention.
(According to studies, 42% of rape survivors told no one about the rape. So much for wanting attention and “privilege”…)
Anyway, I am digressing. Sorry. I was getting carried away with other aspects of this idiocy. Let’s get back to the idea that college women are falsely claiming they’ve been raped to gain special privileges. My mind spins with possibilities.
- Special discounts at the campus bookstore – just present a copy of your police report or evidence of a rape kit being done on you!
- Sit at the front of the class in specially designated “I’ve been raped!” seats, where you can get the best note-taking vantage in the university!
- Get special attention by all those dreamy, hot campus police officers who will sit you down in a room and demand you recount your sex life to them in detail!
Just what are these privileges he thinks women who report rape are getting? And let alone any MEN who report, god forbid? Here’s a look at some of the more real-life “privileges” of being raped (taken in part from the National Women’s Study on the Mental Health Impact of Rape):
- Of those rapes reported to the police (which is 1/3 or less to begin with), only 16% result in prison sentences. Therefore, approximately 5% of the time, a man who rapes ends up in prison, 95% of the time he does not.
- 30% of rape survivors contemplate suicide after the rape and rape survivors are 13 times more likely than people who have not experienced rape to attempt suicide.
- Almost one-third (31%) of all rape victims developed PTSD sometime during their lifetime; and more than one in ten rape victims (11%) still has PTSD today.
- 30% of rape victims had experienced at least one major depressive episode in their lifetimes, and 21% of all rape victims were experiencing a major depressive episode at the time of assessment: By contrast, only 10% of women never victimized by violent crime had ever had a major depressive episode; and only 6% had a major depressive episode when assessed.
- Seventy-one percent of all victims and 66% of victims within past five years are concerned about relatives finding out about the rape.
In conclusion, the study summarizes: “The stigma of rape persists. Victims are greatly concerned about others discovering they were raped. Service providers and criminal justice officials should endeavor to maintain the confidentiality and respect the privacy needs of victims.”
Does this really sound like something college women would lie about in order to get the privileges listed above?
How much of this idiocy has to be spouted before everybody throws their hands up in the air and says, “Okay, enough. Just… enough. Go sit in a corner and think a bit about what you’re saying. Try not to be a jerk.”
For more articulate and succinct responses to this, check out the hashtag:
As one poster succinctly put it: “my
#survivorprivilege is PTSD, flashbacks, panic attacks, nightmares, and shame…. almost 6 years later”
Yeah. That kind of privilege.
* While I am an employee of Tri-Valley Haven, the views in this blog and the sarcasm with which they are presented are my own. :)